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		<description><![CDATA[INTERNATIONAL MEN’S DAY CELEBRATION
19 NOVEMBER 2009

Men and women across the world will be celebrating International Men’s Day on Thursday, 19 November 2009.  This year, India celebrates International Men’s Day for the third time along with 23 other countries around the globe.
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19 NOVEMBER 2009</strong></p>
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<p>Men and women across the world will be celebrating International Men’s Day on Thursday, 19 November 2009.  This year, India celebrates International Men’s Day for the third time along with 23 other countries around the globe.</p>
<p>Bike and car rallies are being conducted in all major cities in India to reach out to the public and encourage them to celebrate this day. In Hyderabad, a vehicle rally will start from Public Gardens at 8:30 a.m. and conclude at Hitech City around 12:00 noon.</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><strong>Message for everyone on International Men’s Day</strong></p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em>Most men lead lives of quiet desperation and go to the grave with the song still in them.</em></p>
<p>The above is a quote of Henry David Thoreau, who observed that most men are enslaved to their work and to those for whom they work. True to his words, everyday,</p>
<p>•    Men protect and provide for families.<br />
•    Men render many services that make the society comfortable for everyone.<br />
•    Men make many contributions to science, technology and health of all.<br />
•    Men perform the most dangerous and difficult jobs in the world.<br />
•    Men take risks and die to save other lives during calamities and war.</p>
<p>Every day and everywhere, as we are busy idolizing movie stars, athletes and other celebrities as role models, the common men around us -  the academic achievers, social leaders,  champions of the environment, artists, comedians, soldiers, farmers, fishermen, fire fighters,  and those more humble males who, on a daily basis, clean our streets, build our houses, fix our vehicles, police our streets, deliver newspapers and milk, and care for children &#8211; dedicate themselves to their work and continue to serve everyone.</p>
<p>On International Men’s Day, here is our message to all men:</p>
<p>CELEBRATE BEING MALE!<br />
Tell your story and sing your song!<br />
We will listen, cheer, remember and support you.</p>
<p>On International Men’s Day, we call upon all men and women to recognize and honor men for the numerous services they render and the innumerable sacrifices they make for the health and well-being of our families and society.</p>
<p>We call upon everyone to celebrate the men in our lives – our fathers, brothers, partners, sons, male friends, neighbors and colleagues.</p>
<p>We urge everyone to -</p>
<p>SAY &#8220;NO&#8221; TO MALE BASHING!<br />
SAY &#8220;NO&#8221; TO STEROTYPING OF MEN!<br />
REALIZE MAN IS NOT AN ATM!<br />
STOP TREATING MEN AS UNPAID BODYGUARDS!<br />
STOP VIOLENCE AGAINST MEN!<br />
UNDERSTAND MEN TOO NEED LOVE AND CARE!<br />
UNDERSTAND MEN TOO NEED PROTECTION!<br />
DEMAND TRUE GENDER EQUALITY!<br />
DEMAND GENDER-NEUTRAL LAWS!<br />
DEMAND MEN&#8217;S WELFARE MINISTRY!</p>
<p><strong>HAPPY INTERNATIONAL MEN’S DAY!!!</strong></p>
<p><strong>Organizations celebrating International Men’s Day in Hyderabad</strong></p>
<p>All India Forgotten Women, Andhra Pradesh Mothers-in-law Protection Association, Mothers and Sisters Initiative, Children’s Rights Initiative for Shared Parenting, All India Men’s Welfare Association, Rishtey and Save Indian Family Foundation</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[INVITATION FORINTERNATIONAL MEN’S DAY CELEBRATION
Thursday 19 November 2009

Vehicle rally
Starting from Public Gardens at 8:30 a.m.
Ending at Hitech city around 12:00 noon
Contact: Uma Challa (9704683163), Parthasarathy (9573605415)
19 November is International Men’s Day!!!
CELEBRATE BEING MALE!
HONOUR MEN IN YOUR LIFE!
DEMAND MEN&#8217;S WELFARE MINISTRY!
DEMAND TRUE GENDER EQUALITY!
SAY &#8220;NO&#8221; TO MALE BASHING!
DEMAND GENDER-NEUTRAL LAWS!
REALIZE MAN IS NOT AN ATM!
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><div id=":8s" class="ii gt" style="text-align:center;"><strong>INVITATION FOR</strong><strong>INTERNATIONAL MEN’S DAY CELEBRATION</strong></div>
<div class="ii gt" style="text-align:center;"><strong></strong><strong>Thursday 19 November 2009</strong></div>
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<p>Vehicle rally</p>
<p>Starting from Public Gardens at 8:30 a.m.<br />
Ending at Hitech city around 12:00 noon</p>
<p>Contact: Uma Challa (9704683163), Parthasarathy (9573605415)</p>
<p>19 November is International Men’s Day!!!</p>
<p>CELEBRATE BEING MALE!<br />
HONOUR MEN IN YOUR LIFE!<br />
DEMAND MEN&#8217;S WELFARE MINISTRY!<br />
DEMAND TRUE GENDER EQUALITY!<br />
SAY &#8220;NO&#8221; TO MALE BASHING!<br />
DEMAND GENDER-NEUTRAL LAWS!<br />
REALIZE MAN IS NOT AN ATM!<br />
SAY &#8220;NO&#8221; TO STEROTYPING OF MEN!<br />
STOP VIOLENCE AGAINST MEN!<br />
UNDERSTAND MEN TOO NEED LOVE AND CARE!<br />
UNDERSTAND MEN TOO NEED PROTECTION!<br />
STOP TREATING MEN AS UNPAID BODYGUARDS!<br />
UNDERSTAND MARD KO BHI DARD HOTA HAI!</p>
<p>Let us recognize and honour men for the numerous services they render and the innumerable sacrifices they make for the health and well-being of our families and society!!!</p>
<p><strong>Organizations celebrating International Men’s Day in Hyderabad</strong></p>
<p style="text-align:center;">All India Forgotten Women, Andhra Pradesh Mothers-in-law Protection Association, Mothers and Sisters Initiative, Children’s Rights Initiative for Shared Parenting, All India Men’s Welfare Association, Rishtey and<br />
Save Indian Family Foundation</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="color:#1f497d;">Dear Uma Challa</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="color:#1f497d;">You are utterly brilliant. You are a one woman army. Oh for a thousand like you. Keep up your blitzkrieg.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="color:#1f497d;">Kind Regards</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="color:#1f497d;">Warwick Marsh</span></p>
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		<title>Dads on the Air &#8211; International Mens Day Special</title>
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International Mens Day SpecialNovember 16, 2009


With special guests:

Dr. Elizabeth Celi
Dr. Jerome Teelucksingh
Diane A. Sears
Jason Thompson
Frank Crump and
Uma Challa

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<p>With special guests:</p>
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<li>Dr. Jerome Teelucksingh</li>
<li>Diane A. Sears</li>
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<p>We dedicate the whole of this weeks’ program to <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/International_Men%27s_Day" target="_blank">International Mens Day</a>, which is finally and deservedly starting to get more recognition and traction around the world. <a href="http://www.fathersonline.org/" target="_blank">Warwick Marsh</a>, <em>Dads4Kids</em> who is the Global Coordinator for IMD, set the scene last week on Dads on the Air when he spoke about some of the events taking place in Australia and around the world to celebrate this important International event.</p>
<p>Our guests this week are from 3 different continents, representing millions of good and decent men around the globe, who currently witness themselves being publicly and relentlessly maligned on a daily basis. While there are exceptions to every rule, these should never be used to misrepresent the whole group in the way we now see men being portrayed.</p>
<p>We commence our International lineup of guests with Australia’s <a href="http://www.qualityliving.com.au/" target="_blank">Dr Elizabeth Celi</a> <em>quality living</em> who is the keynote speaker at the  IMD function to be held at Australian Parliament House in the Nations’ Capital, Canberra, on the19th November. Dr.Celi is a strong supporter of the rights of men to be treated as an equal in a modern society, instead of having to face the daily injustices that confront them in many sectors of our community.</p>
<p>Next we speak with <a href="http://vimeo.com/7431442" target="_blank">Dr. Jerome Teelucksingh</a> from Trinidad in the West Indies, who is the founder of IMD and described the event in the following manner, “International Men?s Day is about addressing the challenges and problems that men face; improving gender relations between men and women; promoting gender equality; highlighting positive male role models – not just movie stars and athletes – but “everyday working class men who are living decent, honest lives”; and creating a safer and better world”.</p>
<p>We then speak with <a href="http://www.bsi-international.com/" target="_blank">Diane A. Sears</a>, IMD Coordinator in the USA, who puts it this way, “We must work together as a team. International Mens Day provides us with a great opportunity. Strong fathers create and sustain efficiently functioning family units which positively shape the minds and souls of our children – our future – our bridge to the future. After all, isn?t it really about our children?”</p>
<p>The person responsible for Global Promotions, who is also the Historian and Coordinator for IMD is Australia’s<a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/International_Men%27s_Day" target="_blank"> Jason Thompson</a> and our next guest, who would like to take this opportunity to ask individuals and organizations who are planning an event to contact him with the details at: soulgany@bigpond.com</p>
<p>The following guest is<a href="http://globalfatherhooddialogue.blogspot.com/2009/11/upi-education-joins-international-mens.html" target="_blank"> Frank Crump</a> from the USA and UPI Education, who with  IN SEARCH OF FATHERHOOD® have entered into a partnership in observance of International Men’s Day 2009 on Thursday, 19 November 2009. UPI Education is asking students, faculty, and administrators to observe International Men’s Day 2009 through one moment of silence beginning at 11:19 A.M. (EST) and ending at 11:20 A.M. (EST) to commemorate and contemplate the sacrifices and contributions that Men have made throughout the world. UPI Education is also soliciting essays, articles, and poems from students and adults which identify the positive male role models that have influenced their lives. These essays, articles, and poems will be published on IN SEARCH OF FATHERHOOD®’s blog.</p>
<p>We conclude our program interviewing  one of the hardest working and passionate promoters of equality and justice for all,<a href="../2009/11/12/press-release-international-mens-day-2009/" target="_blank"> Uma Challa</a> from India. Uma Challa is the IMD Coordinator for India. She made the point that, “International women?s Day is celebrated the world over every year but we also need to have a celebration every year to recognize and honor men: our fathers, brothers, partners, sons, male friends and colleagues; for the numerous services they render and the innumerable sacrifices they make to ensure the health and well-being of the family and the society.”</p>
<p><strong><a href="http://www.dadsontheair.net/storage/shows/Dads_on_the_Air_2009-11-17.mp3" target="_blank">Listen Now (MP3)</a></strong></p>
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International Men’s Day – 19 November 2009
Men and women across the world will be celebrating International Men’s Day on Thursday, 19 November 2009.   International Men’s Day was celebrated for the first time in Trinidad and Tobago on 19 November 1999.
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International Men’s Day – 19 November 2009</strong></p>
<p>Men and women across the world will be celebrating International Men’s Day on Thursday, 19 November 2009.   International Men’s Day was celebrated for the first time in Trinidad and Tobago on 19 November 1999.</p>
<p>India celebrated International Men’s Day for the first time in the year 2007. This year, India celebrates International Men’s Day for the third time along with Trinidad and Tobago, Jamaica, Australia, United States, Singapore, United Kingdom, Malta, South Africa, Georgia, New Zealand, Moldova, Germany, Holland and Brazil and other nations around the globe.</p>
<p>Men’s and fathers’ rights groups across the country are planning activities on International Men’s Day 2009 to recognize and honor the selfless sacrifices of men and to celebrate men’s invaluable contributions to families, communities, and society. On this occasion, bike and car rallies will be conducted in all major cities in the country like Hyderabad, Mumbai, Bangalore, Lucknow, Nagpur and Delhi, to reach out to the public and encourage them to celebrate this day.</p>
<p>International Men’s Day is a call for international collaboration to address the challenges and problems men face; for improving gender relations between men and women; for promoting gender equality; and for highlighting positive male role models.</p>
<p><strong>Problems men face:</strong></p>
<p>Every day, men face many of the same problems that women do. These include physical and emotional health issues, work related stress, financial difficulties, problems with family and relationships, and more serious problems like domestic violence, harassment at workplace and sexual abuse. In addition, they suffer legal harassment, financial abuse and forced separation from children through women-centric laws.</p>
<p>Men are conditioned to stifle their emotions and endure pain without complaining. Men hesitate to express themselves for the fear of being ridiculed or discredited. International Men’s Day is an occasion to remind ourselves that men are human, that they experience pain, emotions and tears, and that they deserve our love, care, protection and support every day.</p>
<p><strong>Improving gender relations:</strong></p>
<p>For the last several decades, governments across the world and society tacitly approved the propagation of anti-male sentiments, condoned the resultant diminution in value of men’s lives and supported blatant violation of men’s rights through discriminatory laws and policies, all in the name of women’s rights and empowerment.</p>
<p>This has resulted in a gender war, and led to a steep rise in divorce rates, number of fatherless children, violence against men and number of men ending their own lives. International Men’s Day is an occasion to remind everyone of the need to restore stability in the society by promoting harmony between men and women.</p>
<p><strong>Promoting gender equality:</strong></p>
<p>Women’s empowerment and gender equality are two oft-repeated phrases today. It is sad enough that there are many who take great pride in wearing these labels while remaining completely oblivious of their true import. What is worse is that radical women’s groups and vested interests have successfully subverted the real meaning and purpose of women’s empowerment and gender equality, and are promoting discrimination, injustice and serious human rights abuses in the name of gender equality.</p>
<p>Domestic and social harmony will prevail only when women AND men are ensured their rightful, honorable place within and outside the home. International Men’s Day is an occasion to commit ourselves to ensure true gender equality in the society and under law, so that gender relations are improved, litigations are reduced, legal terrorism and extortion through misuse of the law is eliminated, and our human and financial resources can be employed to ensure a better society for ourselves and future generations.</p>
<p><strong>Highlighting positive male role models:</strong></p>
<p>It is commonplace to idolize movie stars and athletes as role models everywhere in the world. While being overzealous about celebrating and honoring famous personalities, we tend to ignore that every day,</p>
<p>•    Men render many services that make the society comfortable for everyone.<br />
•    Men make many contributions to science, technology and health of all.<br />
•    Men perform the most dangerous and difficult jobs in the world.<br />
•    Men take risks and die to save other lives during calamities and war.<br />
•    Men bring humor into our lives and make us laugh.</p>
<p>International Men’s Day is an occasion to highlight and promote positive role models in all walks of life. It is a day to remind ourselves to honor all men &#8211; academic achievers, social leaders,  champions of the environment, artists, comedians, soldiers, farmers, fishermen, fire fighters,  and those more humble males who, on a daily basis, clean our streets, build our houses, fix our vehicles, police our streets, deliver newspapers and milk, care for children, and dedicate themselves to others. It is a day to remember that we must celebrate all men in our lives &#8211; our fathers, brothers, partners, sons, male friends, neighbors and colleagues.</p>
<p>On this great and joyous occasion, we request all members of the print and electronic media to join us in spreading our message to the entire world.</p>
<p><strong>Organizations observing International Men’s Day in India:</strong></p>
<p>All India Forgotten Women, Andhra Pradesh Mothers-in-law Protection Association, Mothers and Sisters Initiative, Children’s Rights Initiative for Shared Parenting, All India Men’s Welfare Association, Gender Human Rights Society, Save Indian Family Foundation, Pati Parivar Kalyan Samiti, Save Family Foundation, Save Family Harmony Foundation, Bhavya Foundation, Rishtey, All India Mothers-in-law Protection Association and Hridaya Foundation.</p>
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•    Men protect and provide for families.
•    Men render many services that make the society comfortable  for everyone.
•    Men make many contributions to science, technology and health of all.
•    Men perform the most dangerous and difficult jobs in the world.
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<p>•    Men protect and provide for families.<br />
•    Men render many services that make the society comfortable  for everyone.<br />
•    Men make many contributions to science, technology and health of all.<br />
•    Men perform the most dangerous and difficult jobs in the world.<br />
•    Men take risks and die to save other lives during calamities and war.<br />
•    Men bring humor into our lives and make us laugh.</p>
<p>These men are…</p>
<p><em>…academic achievers, social leaders,  champions of the environment, artists, comedians, soldiers, farmers, fishermen, fire fighters,  and those more humble males who, on a daily basis, clean our streets, build our houses, fix our vehicles, police our streets, deliver newspapers and milk, care for children, and dedicate themselves to others.<br />
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These men are…</p>
<p><em>…our fathers, brothers, partners, sons, male friends, neighbours and colleagues.</em></p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><strong>On the occasion of International Men’s Day, let us remind ourselves that </strong></p>
<p>-    Men are human;<br />
-    Men experience pain, emotions and tears; and<br />
-    Men deserve our love, care, protection and support.</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><strong>Let us recognize and honor men<br />
for the numerous services they render<br />
and the innumerable sacrifices they make<br />
for the health and well-being of our families and society!!!<br />
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ALL INDIA FORGOTTEN WOMEN<br />
ANDHRA PRADESH MOTHERS-IN-LAW PROTECTION ASSOCIATION<br />
MOTHERS AND SISTERS INITIATIVE<br />
CHILDREN’S RIGHTS INITIATIVE FOR SHARED PARENTING</p>
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		<title>Andhra Pradesh Mothers-in-law Protection Association – Press Release</title>
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PRESS RELEASELaunch of Andhra Pradesh Mothers-in-law Protection Association (APMPA)
Venue: Public Gardens, Opposite Jubilee Hall
Date and Time: 18 October 2009, 11:00 a.m. to 1:00 p.m.

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<div style="text-align:center;font-weight:bold;">PRESS RELEASELaunch of Andhra Pradesh Mothers-in-law Protection Association (APMPA)</p>
<p>Venue: Public Gardens, Opposite Jubilee Hall<br />
Date and Time: 18 October 2009, 11:00 a.m. to 1:00 p.m.</p>
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<p>Mothers-in-law in our country are being severely discriminated against, neglected and subjected to all forms of domestic abuse over the last decade. Unless provisions are made to protect mothers-in-law from discrimination, domestic violence, and legal harassment, and unless steps are taken to ensure their welfare during their post-menopausal years, we will witness serious deterioration in the health conditions of aging women in the country, and reduction in their life span.</p>
<p>Andhra Pradesh Mothers-in-law Protection Association (APMPA) is the first ever social forum created to protect the rights and interests of mothers-in-law in Andhra Pradesh. APMPA is the Andhra Pradesh chapter of All India Mothers-in-law Protection Forum (http://www.aimpf.org) which was launched on 6 September 2009 in Bangalore, followed by the launch of local chapters in Delhi, Nagpur and Lucknow.</p>
<p>Mothers-in-law have historically been portrayed as evil and bloodthirsty by media and popular culture. However, it is a scientifically and also statistically established fact that mothers-in-law are unnecessarily maligned and subjected to discrimination by the society.</p>
<p>The National Family Health Survey (NFHS) (http://www.nfhsindia.org Vol-1 Page 500) has conclusively established that a woman in the age group of 15-49 years of age faces 8 times more violence from her own mother compared to her mother-in-law. 13.7% women have faced violence from their own mother as compared to 1.7% women who have faced from their mothers-in-law.</p>
<p>Recent Research has shown that “daughters-in-law are programmed to hate mothers-in-law”. This is one of the most important causes of the stereotyping of mothers-in-law in the society.</p>
<p>Mothers-in-law are being discriminated against in spite of their generosity just for the sin of giving birth to sons and getting them married. They are being forced to part with their earnings, savings and inherited wealth and they are being thrown out of their own property at the behest of a disgruntled daughter-in-law. They are losing their mental peace and health, and many a time even their husbands and sons to untimely death or suicide when daughters-in-law indulge in making false allegations and defamation of the husband’s family. In many instances, the mothers-in-law themselves commit suicide.</p>
<p>Mothers -in-law in India face severe abuse from daughters-in-law:</p>
<p>•    Physical harassment including assault, locking up the mother-in-law in a room, denying food and medication etc.<br />
• Mental harassment including taunts, allegations, caustic comments, threatening to file police cases, disallowing communication with her son, grandchildren, defaming her and her family etc.<br />
•    Verbal harassment including name calling, insulting, abusing, etc.<br />
• Economic abuse including extorting her money and wealth, throwing her out of her own house and forcibly occupying the house, etc.<br />
• Legal harassment including inciting the police to threaten her, filing false cases under Dowry Prohibition Act, IPC Section 498A, Domestic Violence Act, and other related sections, sending her to jail or forcing her to run around the court for years together.<br />
•    Driving mothers-in-law to commit suicide.</p>
<p>The National Family Health Survey, conducted by the Ministry of Family Health and Welfare only counts women between the ages of 15-49 as women. Mothers-in-law who fall in the age bracket above 49 do not count as women, and their health and welfare is not a matter of concern for the Government of India.</p>
<p>While there are close to 15 laws that provide protection to daughters-in-law, mothers-in-law do not have any societal support or legal protection from any form of discrimination or abuse.</p>
<p>In the last four years, over 1,23,497 women, most of them being mothers-in-law, have been arrested under IPC Section 498A alone, without evidence or investigation, not for committing any crime under law, but only because they were related to a man.</p>
<p>Noted women’s rights activist Madhu Kishwar acknowledged that IPC Section 498A is heavily misused, and that a significant proportion of individuals who approach “Manushi” these days are mothers-in-law and husbands who are falsely accused of marital cruelty and dowry harassment.</p>
<p>Renowned IPS officer Kiran Bedi admitted that many poor and illiterate mothers-in-law, who are falsely charged under anti-dowry laws, are languishing in prison every year.</p>
<p>Several elderly women, falsely accused under IPC Section 498A (for the only crime of mothering sons and getting the sons married) approached the National Commission for Women, seeking justice. These women have long heart-rending accounts of how they are being harassed by their daughters-in-law. The NCW’s short, yet prompt and candid response to these mothers was, “Your matter does not fall under the mandate of the Commission”.</p>
<p>Similarly, in June 2009, a 45 year old mother-in-law was arrested in a dowry harassment case filed by her daughter-in-law. The poor lady was allegedly gang-raped in police custody, in Bhopal. The news, which was reported in leading newspapers, went completely unnoticed by the NCW or any other women’s organization that harps about fighting atrocities against women. No panel was set up. No probe was initiated and no action has been taken against this brutality perpetrated against a mother-in-law.</p>
<p>On 8 October 2009, a news report described the gut-wrenching tale of a 75-year-old mother-in-law, Jiwan Devi, who is another victim of societal and legal bias against mothers-in-law. Holding back her tears, here is what she said to the journalist who visited her:</p>
<p>“What is the point?…I and my sons were in jail for four years before we were acquitted. And my grandchildren were at the mercy of our neighbours and distant relatives. Why?… My granddaughter is 19. While all her friends are in college, she is still in class 11. This happened only because there was no one to take care of them while we were in jail. They were also in deep shock”’</p>
<p>There are thousands of Jiwan Devis in this country, whose lives have been destroyed, just for having given life to sons. These are the women whose woes do not fall under the agenda of the Ministry for Women and Child Development, the National Commission for Women, or any other related women’s organization, and they have nowhere to go to seek help and support for problems specifically affecting them.</p>
<p>APMPA will work towards the protection and welfare of such mothers-in-law in distress by creating awareness, giving them moral support and counseling. We will also urge the government to reform the present “wife-centric” domestic violence laws and demand equal protection for mothers-in-law from domestic violence.</p>
<p>The helpline numbers of the Andhra Pradesh Mothers-in-law Protection Association are 9704683163, 9573605415. Mothers-in-law facing harassment from their daughters-in-law can contact these numbers.</p>
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Launch of “All India Men’s Welfare Association (AIMWA)”
11 October 2009
Venue: Public Gardens, Opposite Jubilee Hall
Date and Time: 11 October, 11:00 a.m. – 1:00 p.m.
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<p style="text-align:center;"><strong>Launch of “All India Men’s Welfare Association (AIMWA)”</strong><br />
11 October 2009<br />
Venue: Public Gardens, Opposite Jubilee Hall<br />
Date and Time: 11 October, 11:00 a.m. – 1:00 p.m.</p>
<p>October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month. India is observing this occasion for the first time this year, and four organizations in Hyderabad – Save Indian Family Foundation, All India Forgotten Women, Rishtey and Children’s Rights Initiative for Shared Parenting &#8211; launched a month-long campaign on 2 October, the International Day of Non-Violence.</p>
<p>The campaign aims at educating the Indian public about how the problem of domestic violence has, for decades, been misrepresented, how domestic violence has been commercialized, and how Indian laws claiming to prevent domestic violence are actually promoting domestic violence and human rights abuses against men, women and children. We will also urge lawmakers and the Government to make appropriate reforms in laws and policies and push for gender neutral provisions to end domestic violence against men, women and children.</p>
<p>As part of this campaign, we are launching an “All India Men’s Welfare Association (AIMWA)”, a National level organization based in Hyderabad, on 11 October 2009.</p>
<p><strong>Why do we need an “All India Men’s Welfare Association”?<br />
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Welfare of boys and men has been seriously neglected in India over the last two decades. While proudly championing the cause of women’s rights and women’s empowerment, the government and society tacitly approved the propagation of anti-male sentiments, condoned the resultant diminution in value of men’s lives and supported blatant violation of men’s rights through discriminatory laws and policies. The growing apathy of the government and society towards the sufferings of men has necessitated the formation of an All India Men’s Welfare Association.</p>
<p>It has to be noted that while men still perform some of the most risky and challenging jobs in the society, and while the Government of India collects 82% of its tax revenue from men, not a single rupee has been allocated in the name of men’s welfare in the country’s budget in the last 60 years.</p>
<p>The National Family Health Survey, conducted by the Ministry of Health and Family Welfare, does not consider men’s health and welfare important. Enormous focus on women and children, and the mention of men only in relation to how they should contribute to the health and welfare of women and children, clearly indicates the apathy of the Government towards men.</p>
<p>The homepage of the Animal Welfare Board of India (AWBI) cites Vardhamana Mahavira, the sage of total non-violence, who said, &#8220;All beings are fond of themselves, they like pleasure, they hate pain, they shun destruction, they like life and want to live long. To all, life is dear; hence their life should be protected.&#8221;  While Mahavira’s teachings seem to have inspired the Indian Government to assign a separate ministry to look after issues of Animal Welfare through AWBI, the same Government did not see any necessity to establish a Ministry for Men’s Welfare.</p>
<p>Several laws have been passed in the last 60 years in the name of protection of women and their empowerment. However, there are no laws to protect boys and men from any form of abuse or harassment within and outside the home. Men are being subjected to severe discrimination under law, and their basic human rights are being violated every day in the name of more and more legal provisions that claim to empower and protect women.</p>
<p>Thousands of men are becoming victims of “legal terrorism” unleashed through laws like Indian Penal Code Section 498A, Protection of Women Against Domestic Violence Act, adultery laws, laws against rape and sexual harassment, and even divorce, maintenance and child custody laws.</p>
<p>While society is applauding more and more women getting educated, entering the job market and challenging their traditional roles within the family and society, men are still being shackled to their traditional duties of protecting and providing for women, children and the aged.</p>
<p>The growing disregard and hatred against men in our society is forcing more than 56,000 Indian men to end their lives every year. According to statistics obtained from the National Crime Records Bureau, every year, twice as many married men, compared to women, commit suicides unable to withstand verbal, emotional, economic and physical abuse and legal harassment. Deaths of these men make for the brief stories we often read in newspapers stating that a certain man “killed himself due to family issues or financial problems”. While every death of a young married woman is converted into a case of dowry death leading to immediate arrest of the husband and in-laws, accompanied by media-hype, male-bashing and breast-beating, large-scale suicides of men do not cause any outrage in the society.</p>
<p>Domestic and social harmony will prevail only when women AND men are ensured their rightful, honorable place within and outside the home. In addition, when we ensure true gender equality under law, litigations will be reduced, legal terrorism and extortion through misuse of the law will be eliminated, and our human and financial resources can be employed for betterment of the society and the country.</p>
<p>The aim of AIMWA is to work towards providing protection for men and boys against gender discrimination, domestic violence, sexual harassment and other forms of abuse. The organization will also focus on related issues like physical and mental health of men, and the need for social changes, policy reforms and legal solutions to men’s problems.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[In May 2003, the National Commission for Women (NCW) felicitated one Ms. Nisha Sharma for canceling her own wedding, standing up against the evil of dowry and sending out a “loud and clear message to dowry seekers”, and Ms. Sharma became a role model for all women, overnight.  The truth, that her wedding was not [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=uchalla.wordpress.com&blog=625711&post=216&subd=uchalla&ref=&feed=1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p>In May 2003, the National Commission for Women (NCW) felicitated one Ms. Nisha Sharma for canceling her own wedding, standing up against the evil of dowry and sending out a “loud and clear message to dowry seekers”, and Ms. Sharma became a role model for all women, overnight.  The truth, that her wedding was not cancelled due to additional demands for dowry, but because of Ms. Sharma’s pending issues with a former boyfriend, was quietly pushed under the carpet by the NCW.</p>
<p>In the same vein, in July 2007, a woman called Pooja Chauhan made false accusations of dowry harassment against her husband and mother-in-law, and paraded the streets of Rajkot semi-nude as a symbol of protest. The NCW was very prompt in reacting to the incident, ensured the arrest of the husband, mother-in-law, and neighbors too, for allegedly committing domestic violence against Ms. Chauhan. It did not take too long for the truth to come out and for the NCW spokesperson to put her foot in her mouth, and quickly cover up their <em>faux pas</em>.</p>
<p>In February 2009, NCW showed its characteristic promptness in ordering a probe into the “Mangalore pub incident” when a number of girls were allegedly molested by some goons in the middle of the night. The NCW and other women’s rights champions had a field-day harping about increasing atrocities on women.  When the investigation report filed by Karnataka Women’s Commission Chairperson, Nirmala Venkatesh, revealed certain inconvenient truths, the NCW found itself in the same usual “foot-in-its-mouth-situation”. This time the NCW rejected Ms. Venkatesh’s report, and fired her to save its own face.</p>
<p>On 5 October 2009, an airhostess approached the NCW with allegations of assault and molestation on a pilot and co-pilot of a plane on which she was a crew member. While counter allegations and witness statements quickly revealed that the story of the airhostess may just be another story like those mentioned above, the NCW habitually jumped into action, and instituted a panel for investigation into the issue, in less than 2.5 days after the incident. The two pilots have been fired even before the investigation could begin. Knowing NCW’s track record of rendering justice in such situations, does one have to really guess the outcome of this episode?</p>
<p>Never mind! The NCW is just doing its job of looking after protection and empowerment of women in a male-dominated society. After all, it should be okay to penalize a few innocent men to protect thousands of vulnerable women, right?</p>
<p>Oh! Wait a minute! Don’t jump to conclusions so soon!</p>
<p>Beginning year 2005, several elderly women, falsely accused under IPC Section 498A (for the only crime of mothering sons and getting the sons married) approached the NCW, seeking justice. These women have long heart-rending accounts of how they are being harassed by their daughters-in-law. The NCW’s short, yet prompt and candid response to these mothers was, “Your matter does not fall under the mandate of the Commission”.</p>
<p>Similarly, in June 2009, a 45 year old woman who was arrested on charges of dowry harassment was allegedly gang-raped in police custody, in Bhopal. The news, which was reported in leading newspapers, went completely unnoticed by the NCW. No panel, no probe, even 2.5 months after the incident. Surprised? No need to be. This is simply one more matter that does not fall under the mandate of NCW.</p>
<p>Indian women need to be very clear about their expectations from the NCW, when the NCW is so clear about its mandate. You should know by now that the NCW is literally working overtime for the cause of disgruntled, adulterous, parasitic and criminal-minded wives, girlfriends and female workers. How many more matters would you expect the NCW to include in its mandate? Why are so many of you women surprised about NCW’s <em>modi operandi</em>? Beats me!</p>
<div id="_mcePaste" style="overflow:hidden;position:absolute;left:-10000px;top:0;width:1px;height:1px;">The National Commission for Women – Candidness personified!</p>
<p>Uma Challa</p>
<p>In May 2003, the National Commission for Women (NCW) felicitated one Ms. Nisha Sharma for canceling her own wedding, standing up against the evil of dowry and sending out a “loud and clear message to dowry seekers”, and Ms. Sharma became a role model for all women, overnight.  The truth, that her wedding was not cancelled due to additional demands for dowry, but because of Ms. Sharma’s pending issues with a former boyfriend, was quietly pushed under the carpet by the NCW.</p>
<p>In the same vein, in July 2007, a woman called Pooja Chauhan made false accusations of dowry harassment against her husband and mother-in-law, and paraded the streets of Rajkot semi-nude as a symbol of protest. The NCW was very prompt in reacting to the incident, ensured the arrest of the husband, mother-in-law, and neighbors too, for allegedly committing domestic violence against Ms. Chauhan. It did not take too long for the truth to come out and for the NCW spokesperson to put her foot in her mouth, and quickly cover up their faux pas.</p>
<p>In February 2009, NCW showed its characteristic promptness in ordering a probe into the “Mangalore pub incident” when a number of girls were allegedly molested by some goons in the middle of the night. The NCW and other women’s rights champions had a field-day harping about increasing atrocities on women.  When the investigation report filed by Karnataka Women’s Commission Chairperson, Nirmala Venkatesh, revealed certain inconvenient truths, the NCW found itself in the same usual “foot-in-its-mouth-situation”. This time the NCW rejected Ms. Venkatesh’s report, and fired her to save its own face.</p>
<p>On 5 October 2009, an airhostess approached the NCW with allegations of assault and molestation on a pilot and co-pilot of a plane on which she was a crew member. While counter allegations and witness statements quickly revealed that the story of the airhostess may just be another story like those mentioned above, the NCW habitually jumped into action, and instituted a panel for investigation into the issue, in less than 2.5 days after the incident. The two pilots have been fired even before the investigation could begin. Knowing NCW’s track record of rendering justice in such situations, does one have to really guess the outcome of this episode?</p>
<p>Never mind! The NCW is just doing its job of looking after protection and empowerment of women in a male-dominated society. After all, it should be okay to penalize a few innocent men to protect thousands of vulnerable women, right?</p>
<p>Oh! Wait a minute! Don’t jump to conclusions so soon!</p>
<p>Beginning year 2005, several elderly women, falsely accused under IPC Section 498A (for the only crime of mothering sons and getting the sons married) approached the NCW, seeking justice. These women have long heart-rending accounts of how they are being harassed by their daughters-in-law. The NCW’s short, yet prompt and candid response to these mothers was, “Your matter does not fall under the mandate of the Commission”.</p>
<p>Similarly, in June 2009, a 45 year old woman who was arrested on charges of dowry harassment was allegedly gang-raped in police custody, in Bhopal. The news, which was reported in leading newspapers, went completely unnoticed by the NCW. No panel, no probe, even 2.5 months after the incident. Surprised? No need to be. This is simply one more matter that does not fall under the mandate of NCW.</p>
<p>Indian women need to be very clear about their expectations from the NCW, when the NCW is so clear about its mandate. You should know by now that the NCW is literally working overtime for the cause of disgruntled, adulterous, parasitic and criminal-minded wives, girlfriends and female workers. How many more matters would you expect the NCW to include in its mandate? Why are so many of you women surprised about NCW’s modi operandi? Beats me!</p>
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DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AWARENESS MONTH – INDIA &#8211; 2009
October is &#8220;Domestic Violence Awareness Month&#8221;. India is observing “Domestic Violence Awareness Month&#8221; for the first time this year to make it an International event for all men’s rights and fathers’ rights groups across the world.
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<div style="text-align:center;">DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AWARENESS MONTH – INDIA &#8211; 2009</div>
<p>October is &#8220;Domestic Violence Awareness Month&#8221;. India is observing “Domestic Violence Awareness Month&#8221; for the first time this year to make it an International event for all men’s rights and fathers’ rights groups across the world.</p>
<p>Four organizations in Hyderabad viz. Save Indian Family Foundation, All India Forgotten Women, Rishtey and Children’s Rights Initiative for Shared Parenting, are launching this campaign on 2 October because it is the International Day of Non-Violence, an occasion meant for disseminating the message of non-violence through education and public awareness.</p>
<p>Beginning today, our month-long campaign will focus on educating the Indian public about how the problem of domestic violence has, for decades, been misrepresented, how domestic violence has been commercialized, and how Indian laws claiming to prevent domestic violence are actually promoting domestic violence and human rights abuses against men, women and children. We will also urge lawmakers and the Government to make appropriate reforms in laws and policies and make gender neutral provisions to end domestic violence against men, women and children.</p>
<div style="text-align:center;"><span style="font-weight:bold;">The truth about domestic violence</span></div>
<p>Unbiased research on domestic violence the world over shows that:</p>
<ol>
<li>Domestic Violence is not a gender issue.</li>
<li>Men and children are victims too.</li>
<li>Women are just as likely as men to commit domestic violence.</li>
<li>Women initiate domestic violence just as frequently as men do.</li>
<li>Men and children are less likely to report the incident when they are abused by their wives/girlfriends and mothers respectively.</li>
<li>Women’s organizations spread myths about domestic violence (e.g. Men are always the aggressors and women are always the victims).</li>
<li>Media coverage is often biased (e.g. A young married woman committing suicide is automatically reported as dowry death, and a young married man committing suicide is attributed to financial/family problems or mysterious reasons).</li>
<li>Politicians and bureaucrats find no incentive in addressing <span style="font-weight:bold;">domestic violence by women</span> against men, children and fellow women.</li>
</ol>
<div style="text-align:center;font-weight:bold;">Indian laws against domestic violence</div>
<p>Indian laws against domestic violence are irrational and discriminatory, and blatantly violate provisions of the Indian Constitution and the Universal Declaration of Human Rights.</p>
<p>• The Universal Declaration of Human Rights proclaims that “everyone charged with a penal offence has the right to be presumed innocent until proved guilty according to law.”</p>
<p>But Indian laws against domestic violence presume that the accused is guilty until proven innocent and violate universal principles of fair trial.</p>
<p>• Article 21 of the Indian Constitution states that &#8220;no person shall be deprived of his life or personal liberty except according to procedure established by law&#8221;.</p>
<p>But every year, over 1 lakh innocent persons (one innocent person every 5 minutes) are arrested under IPC Section 498A, including 4,000 innocent senior citizens (one innocent elderly person every 2.5 hours) and 350 children (one child per day) without evidence or investigation.</p>
<p>• The Universal Declaration of Human rights states that “all are equal before the law, and are entitled without any discrimination to equal protection of the law&#8221;. Article 14 of the Indian Constitution declares that “The State shall not deny to any person equality before the law or the equal protection of the laws within the territory of India.”</p>
<p>But Indian laws against domestic violence blatantly deny protection to men against any form of domestic abuse, and every year, over 56,000 married men commit suicide due to verbal, emotional, economic and physical abuse and legal harassment.</p>
<p>•    Indian laws against domestic violence are touted as tools for women&#8217;s protection and empowerment.<br />
But in the last four years alone, over 1,23,497 women have been arrested under IPC Section 498A alone, without evidence or investigation, not for committing any crime under law, but only because they were related to a man.</p>
<div style="text-align:center;font-weight:bold;">The Domestic Violence Industry</div>
<p>In India, domestic violence against wives is addressed by close to 15 laws (civil and criminal) including the infamous IPC Section 498A and Protection of Women Against Domestic Violence Act (PWDVA). However, there are no laws to protect husbands, children and other family members of the husband from domestic violence by wives. The credit goes to the Domestic Violence Industry and its stakeholders (women’s organizations, law enforcement machinery, legal fraternity, politicians and bureaucrats) whose survival depends on inciting and fueling a gender war, spreading myths and false statistics about domestic violence, encouraging false allegations, breaking families, and siphoning funds in the name of women’s empowerment from National and International funding agencies.</p>
<p>If the problem of domestic violence is solved, would not the booming Domestic Violence Industry, which is immune to all vagaries of the economy, suddenly go bankrupt? It is no wonder that as more and more draconian and inhuman laws are passed under the guise of protection of women, we keep hearing that domestic violence against women is increasing, instead of decreasing.</p>
<p>Consequently, Indian taxpayers have spent lakhs to implement draconian laws and policies in the country. And the verdict is clear – these laws and policies:</p>
<p><span style="font-style:italic;">    Trample on Constitutional Protections and Human Rights.</span><br />
<span style="font-style:italic;">    Hurt men, women and children.</span><br />
<span style="font-style:italic;">    Divert limited funds away from the real victims.</span></p>
<div style="text-align:center;"><span style="font-weight:bold;">Domestic Violence Awareness Month activities</span></div>
<p>Save Indian Family Foundation, All India Forgotten Women, Rishtey and Children’s Rights Initiative for Shared Parenting are organizing a campaign in Hyderabad (1) to spread awareness on “The Truth About Domestic Violence and Indian Domestic Violence Laws”, and (2) to urge lawmakers and the Government to reform the present discriminatory laws, and make gender-neutral provisions for the benefit of men, women, children, families and the society.</p>
<p>Our month-long campaign in Hyderabad includes the following activities:</p>
<p><span style="font-weight:bold;">October 2 &#8211; </span>Press Conference to mark the beginning of Domestic Violence Awareness Month.</p>
<p><span style="font-weight:bold;">October 11 -</span> Launch of <span style="font-weight:bold;">All India Men’s Welfare Association (AIMWA)</span> for protection of men and boys against gender discrimination, domestic violence, sexual harassment and other forms of abuse.</p>
<p><span style="font-weight:bold;">October 18 -</span> Cultural program to spread awareness regarding the truth about domestic violence, and launch of <span style="font-weight:bold;">Andhra Pradesh Mothers-in-law Protection Association (APMPA)</span> for protection of mothers-in-law against discrimination, domestic violence, legal harassment and other forms of abuse.</p>
<p><span style="font-weight:bold;">October 25 – National Rally </span>in Bangalore marking the third anniversary of the inhuman, ill-conceived Protection of Women Against Domestic Violence Act (PWDVA) as <span style="font-weight:bold;">BLACK DAY</span>.</p>
<p>We will also be doing a massive flier campaign across the city throughout the month.</p>
<p>Similar activities will be conducted in other cities across the country like Bangalore, Lucknow, Chattisgarh, Nagpur and Delhi.</p>
<p>We request members of the print and electronic media to attend our events in large numbers and take part in the Domestic Violence Awareness campaign by providing extensive coverage for our events.</p>
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<div style="text-align:center;font-weight:bold;">Press Release</div>
<div style="text-align:center;">DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AWARENESS MONTH – INDIA &#8211; 2009</div>
<p>October is &#8220;Domestic Violence Awareness Month&#8221;. India is observing “Domestic Violence Awareness Month&#8221; for the first time this year to make it an International event for all men’s rights and fathers’ rights groups across the world.</p>
<p>Four organizations in Hyderabad viz. Save Indian Family Foundation, All India Forgotten Women, Rishtey and Children’s Rights Initiative for Shared Parenting, are launching this campaign on 2 October because it is the International Day of Non-Violence, an occasion meant for disseminating the message of non-violence through education and public awareness.</p>
<p>Beginning today, our month-long campaign will focus on educating the Indian public about how the problem of domestic violence has, for decades, been misrepresented, how domestic violence has been commercialized, and how Indian laws claiming to prevent domestic violence are actually promoting domestic violence and human rights abuses against men, women and children. We will also urge lawmakers and the Government to make appropriate reforms in laws and policies and make gender neutral provisions to end domestic violence against men, women and children.</p>
<div style="text-align:center;"><span style="font-weight:bold;">The truth about domestic violence</span></div>
<p>Unbiased research on domestic violence the world over shows that:</p>
<p>1)    Domestic Violence is not a gender issue.<br />
2)    Men and children are victims too.<br />
3)    Women are just as likely as men to commit domestic violence.<br />
4)    Women initiate domestic violence just as frequently as men do.<br />
5) Men and children are less likely to report the incident when they are abused by their wives/girlfriends and mothers respectively.<br />
6) Women’s organizations spread myths about domestic violence (e.g. Men are always the aggressors and women are always the victims).<br />
7) Media coverage is often biased (e.g. A young married woman committing suicide is automatically reported as dowry death, and a young married man committing suicide is attributed to financial/family problems or mysterious reasons).<br />
 <img src='http://s.wordpress.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_cool.gif' alt='8)' class='wp-smiley' />    Politicians and bureaucrats find no incentive in addressing <span style="font-weight:bold;">domestic violence by women</span> against men, children and fellow women.</p>
<div style="text-align:center;font-weight:bold;">Indian laws against domestic violence</div>
<p>Indian laws against domestic violence are irrational and discriminatory, and blatantly violate provisions of the Indian Constitution and the Universal Declaration of Human Rights.</p>
<p>• The Universal Declaration of Human Rights proclaims that “everyone charged with a penal offence has the right to be presumed innocent until proved guilty according to law.”</p>
<p>But Indian laws against domestic violence presume that the accused is guilty until proven innocent and violate universal principles of fair trial.</p>
<p>• Article 21 of the Indian Constitution states that &#8220;no person shall be deprived of his life or personal liberty except according to procedure established by law&#8221;.</p>
<p>But every year, over 1 lakh innocent persons (one innocent person every 5 minutes) are arrested under IPC Section 498A, including 4,000 innocent senior citizens (one innocent elderly person every 2.5 hours) and 350 children (one child per day) without evidence or investigation.</p>
<p>• The Universal Declaration of Human rights states that “all are equal before the law, and are entitled without any discrimination to equal protection of the law&#8221;. Article 14 of the Indian Constitution declares that “The State shall not deny to any person equality before the law or the equal protection of the laws within the territory of India.”</p>
<p>But Indian laws against domestic violence blatantly deny protection to men against any form of domestic abuse, and every year, over 56,000 married men commit suicide due to verbal, emotional, economic and physical abuse and legal harassment.</p>
<p>•    Indian laws against domestic violence are touted as tools for women&#8217;s protection and empowerment.<br />
But in the last four years alone, over 1,23,497 women have been arrested under IPC Section 498A alone, without evidence or investigation, not for committing any crime under law, but only because they were related to a man.</p>
<div style="text-align:center;font-weight:bold;">The Domestic Violence Industry</div>
<p>In India, domestic violence against wives is addressed by close to 15 laws (civil and criminal) including the infamous IPC Section 498A and Protection of Women Against Domestic Violence Act (PWDVA). However, there are no laws to protect husbands, children and other family members of the husband from domestic violence by wives. The credit goes to the Domestic Violence Industry and its stakeholders (women’s organizations, law enforcement machinery, legal fraternity, politicians and bureaucrats) whose survival depends on inciting and fueling a gender war, spreading myths and false statistics about domestic violence, encouraging false allegations, breaking families, and siphoning funds in the name of women’s empowerment from National and International funding agencies.</p>
<p>If the problem of domestic violence is solved, would not the booming Domestic Violence Industry, which is immune to all vagaries of the economy, suddenly go bankrupt? It is no wonder that as more and more draconian and inhuman laws are passed under the guise of protection of women, we keep hearing that domestic violence against women is increasing, instead of decreasing.</p>
<p>Consequently, Indian taxpayers have spent lakhs to implement draconian laws and policies in the country. And the verdict is clear – these laws and policies:</p>
<p><span style="font-style:italic;">    Trample on Constitutional Protections and Human Rights.</span><br />
<span style="font-style:italic;">    Hurt men, women and children.</span><br />
<span style="font-style:italic;">    Divert limited funds away from the real victims.</span></p>
<div style="text-align:center;"><span style="font-weight:bold;">Domestic Violence Awareness Month activities</span></div>
<p>Save Indian Family Foundation, All India Forgotten Women, Rishtey and Children’s Rights Initiative for Shared Parenting are organizing a campaign in Hyderabad (1) to spread awareness on “The Truth About Domestic Violence and Indian Domestic Violence Laws”, and (2) to urge lawmakers and the Government to reform the present discriminatory laws, and make gender-neutral provisions for the benefit of men, women, children, families and the society.</p>
<p>Our month-long campaign in Hyderabad includes the following activities:</p>
<p><span style="font-weight:bold;">October 2 &#8211; </span>Press Conference to mark the beginning of Domestic Violence Awareness Month.</p>
<p><span style="font-weight:bold;">October 11 -</span> Launch of <span style="font-weight:bold;">All India Men’s Welfare Association (AIMWA)</span> for protection of men and boys against gender discrimination, domestic violence, sexual harassment and other forms of abuse.</p>
<p><span style="font-weight:bold;">October 18 -</span> Cultural program to spread awareness regarding the truth about domestic violence, and launch of <span style="font-weight:bold;">Andhra Pradesh Mothers-in-law Protection Association (APMPA)</span> for protection of mothers-in-law against discrimination, domestic violence, legal harassment and other forms of abuse.</p>
<p><span style="font-weight:bold;">October 25 – National Rally </span>in Bangalore marking the third anniversary of the inhuman, ill-conceived Protection of Women Against Domestic Violence Act (PWDVA) as <span style="font-weight:bold;">BLACK DAY</span>.</p>
<p>We will also be doing a massive flier campaign across the city throughout the month.</p>
<p>Similar activities will be conducted in other cities across the country like Bangalore, Lucknow, Chattisgarh, Nagpur and Delhi.</p>
<p>We request members of the print and electronic media to attend our events in large numbers and take part in the Domestic Violence Awareness campaign by providing extensive coverage for our events.</p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class='snap_preview'><br /><p>October is &#8220;Domestic Violence Awareness Month&#8221;. India is observing &#8220;Domestic Violence Awareness Month&#8221; for the first time this year to make it an International event for all men&#8217;s rights and fathers&#8217; rights groups across the world.</p>
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<strong>Restore Civil Rights to Domestic Violence Laws!<br />
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* Have we gone too far with our “get-tough-on-crime” approach to curbing domestic violence?<br />
* Have we become irrational in our approach to women&#8217;s empowerment and women&#8217;s rights?<br />
* Are fundamental Constitutional rights being set aside?<br />
* Are we now supporting violation of human rights of innocent men, women and children?</p>
<p><strong>Guilty until Proven Innocent?</strong></p>
<p>Universal Declaration of Human Rights proclaims that “everyone charged with a penal offence has the right to be presumed innocent until proved guilty according to law.”</p>
<p><strong>But&#8230;</strong></p>
<p>Indian laws against domestic violence presume that the accused is guilty until proven innocent and violate universal principles of fair trial.</p>
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Mandatory Arrest?</strong></p>
<p>Article 21 of the Indian Constitution states that &#8220;no person shall be deprived of his life or personal liberty except according to procedure established by law&#8221;.</p>
<p><strong>But&#8230;</strong></p>
<p>every year, over 1 lakh innocent persons (one innocent person every 5 minutes) are arrested under IPC Section 498A including 4,000 innocent senior citizens (one innocent elderly person every 2.5 hours) and 350 children (one child per day) without evidence or investigation.</p>
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Men do not need protection?</strong></p>
<p>Universal Declaration of Human rights states that “all are equal before the law, and are entitled without any discrimination to equal protection of the law&#8221;.</p>
<p>Article 14 of the Indian Constitution declares that “The State shall not deny to any person equality before the law or the equal protection of the laws within the territory of India.”</p>
<p><strong>But&#8230;</strong></p>
<p>Indian laws against domestic violence blatantly deny protection to men against any form of domestic abuse, and every year, over 56,000 married men commit suicide due to verbal, emotional, economic and physical abuse and legal harassment.</p>
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Mothers and sisters of husband not women?</strong></p>
<p>Indian laws against domestic violence are touted as tools for women&#8217;s protection and empowerment.</p>
<p><strong>But&#8230;</strong></p>
<p>in the last four years alone, over 1,23,497 women have been arrested under IPC Section 498A alone, without evidence or investigation, not for committing any crime under law, but only because they were related to a man.</p>
<p>The verdict is in…</p>
<p>Indian taxpayers have spent lakhs to to implement draconian policies around the country. And the verdict is clear – these policies:</p>
<p>* Trample on Constitutional protections and human rights<br />
* Hurt men, women and children<br />
* Divert limited funds away from the real victims</p>
<p>It’s time to restore civil liberties, respect for victims, and common sense to our nation’s domestic violence laws.</p>
<p><strong>Organizations across India observing Domestic Violence Awareness Month:</strong></p>
<p>*<a title="SIFF" href="http://saveindianfamily.org/" target="_blank"> Save Indian Family Foundation</a><br />
* <a title="SFF" href="http://savefamily.org/" target="_blank">Save Family Foundation</a><br />
* <a title="AiFW" href="http://aifw.info" target="_blank">All India Forgotten Women</a><br />
* <a title="Rishtey" href="http://risthey.org/" target="_blank">Rishtey</a><br />
* <a title="GHRS" href="http://ghrs.in" target="_blank">Gender Human Rights Society</a><br />
* <a title="PIFF" href="http://protectindianfamily.org" target="_blank">Protect Indian Family Foundation</a><br />
* <a title="CRISP" href="http://www.crisp-india.org/" target="_blank">Children&#8217;s Rights Initiative for Shared Parenting</a></p>
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